Loving Yourself Is One Of The Most Important Things In Your Life.
So today I wanted to do a blog post on something that people find quite hard to do and that is Loving Yourself.
We do not always love ourselves, We often look in the mirror and critic something on our body even if it’s a pimple or somebody fat or even our eyebrows, We live in a world where People are a lot more self-conscious that we are supposed to be we are all peer pressured to try and look perfect <—But being perfect doesn’t matter at all! But you could also critic your inner self like saying to yourself that you are stupid or not good enough or blaming everything on yourself.
I am on a journey to try and love myself but for the past few weeks I have realised that you don’t have to love yourself, you just need to love spending time with Yourself and to be happy with what you do and what choices you make because you are perfect,just the way you are.
You can love spending time with yourself by doing things you love! Try to find a new hobbies that you love or try out a hobby of someone that you find beautiful . If you do loads of cute and fun activities that you love sometimes you will say to yourself:” I may not like the way I look or how lazy I am but I have a great personality!
Think about the person that you want to be and set yourself that goal (try to find a reachable goal) , For me this didn’t particularly work, The only thing that it did was make me feel down but you could have a go maybe for you guys it will work.
I woke up one day in a great mood and I told myself that I should try to be the best version of myself as possible. And it worked I deleted the Addictive game on my phone ( Candy Crush) and that gave me a lot of time to know the beautiful person that I am inside (I am not narcissist). So I started spending more time doing my hobbies. I baked more often, Played my Piano more, Did collages, did more Drawing, Read A lot more, Completed all my homework for school and I even discovered Two new hobbies, Yoga and Painting! Hobbies will help you discover the best version of yourself.
Now they sell Adults colouring books, a lot of people say that they absolutely love it! Plus It is super soothing! So you could try that as a new hobby.
I am not a sporty girl at all so I decided That yoga was the sport for me and it Was! I found a Yoga Youtube channel (YogawithAdreine) It is a super relaxing sport great to spend time with yourself.
Also do not invest Yourself in a person that don’t make you feel beautiful it will only destroy you it is really unhealthy!
Spending time with your family is really important and helps you love yourself, Do nice things for them and you will think of yourself as a good person plus they love you for who you are.
To finish it off here is a poem by Grace Nichols:
“Give yourself a hug.
Give yourself a hug
When you feel unloved.
Give yourself a hug
when people put on airs
to make you feel like a bug
Give yourself a big big hug.
And keep on singing one in a million like me
Only one In a million-billion-trillion-zillion like me.”
Well I hoped you like this post I spent a lot of work on it and It is only my 3rd one.